What is Self Love ?

Is Self Love putting yourself ahead of anybody else’s needs ?? But isn’t that what we call being “ Selfish” ???

Above the superficial sense of Self- Love , what we all have to realise is that the term in itself is a “FOUNDATION” that we build and our only way to connect with our real soul.

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Most people are disconnected from their true self - because they are addicted to seeking approvals , acceptance, worthiness and love. In this very process, they tend to indulge in self sabotage by constantly resorting to people pleasing behaviour. Aligning your thoughts with your inner self is important.

WHERE TO BEGIN

Firstly, understand that Selflove isn’t Selfish and eliminate anybody who tells you that, from your life.

However, we have to realise that Self-Love isn’t a Destination, it is a Lifestyle! It is a Practice .
It is a “CONSCIOUS EFFORT “ of getting in touch with yourself , aligning your thoughts with your soul and

Competition is the thief of Self-Love and just know that the only competition you have is “YOU in the past VS You in the present”. Being wise enough to not re-live your past mistakes and feel guilty about it, when you know that you can only learn from the past . It is about infusing your creative thoughts into your dressing , interests , way of living etc.

It is knowing where you are spending your creative energy and time and if it's bringing joy to you.

Just remember that only you are in charge of your own ship and you are not responsible for steering anybody else’s. Your self - respect and integrity is your choice and only you can bring yourself joy and happiness.

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